I DON'T NEED A MAN

I don’t need a man.

 This phrase once caught me…Does the person who quoted it has much bitterness in her heart? But possibly I myself do not need a man…better off to say…

 I want a man.

Most people search in “need” of another person. .But what this “need” means? It is like saying that you are looking for the better half that can complete you.  The way I look at it, I don’t need a man. Myself, my  family and only God  alone can complete me. Hence, once I am complete, I then want a man to complement my completeness.

But what do I really “want”?

I want a man that would understand how I think and feel.  A man with fair judgment, who knows to make his own decision and has the courage to face the consequences of it.

I want a man that could be there on my ups and downs, in my gloomy and bright days. A man that have the determination on whatever he does.

I want a man that would not say he is thinking of me all the time because I know that is a lie. But a man that would make me feels that I am a natural woman. He who is truthful,  and knows how to honestly express himself to me.

I want a man that can make me smile, make me laugh or even make me cry at times. A man who will be sincere enough to accept me but will not tolerate my bad behavior.  A man to whom I can crack jokes, not too much sensitive  to take it.. a man with good sense of humor.

I want a man that will not spend every time with me but would be willing to expend  quality time with me. Someone that respects my privacy and most especially respects me.  A man that I can talk to, share my dreams with, or even utter my simple thoughts , showing that he listens to me.

I want a man that loves his family, and would appreciate my family. A man who plans his future and knows how he will lead me. 

I want a man that I can walk hand in hand with.  Someone that will be my supernova.

 A man that loves God more than he will love me.

A man who is complete.

 A man I will still love in the morning..forever and ever.

 I want this man.