The EndlessHappyness Album

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WELCOME TO ENDLESS HAPPYNESS ALBUM

Orson Welles said ““If you want a happy ending, that depends, of course, on where you stop your story” 2010 is almost over, I bet it was a mixture of heaven and hell for us, somewhere along the bus ride you came across the question “ What will really make me happy” or Where can I find happiness”

I read once, “Don’t seek happiness. Happiness is ever elusive, but freedom from unhappiness is attainable now.” It made perfect sense to me. Happy things can be found on the simple things around us, those perfect moments we sometimes pay no attention to, the words we often choose not to hear or in the unadorned incidents we bump into everyday.

So, for 2011 let us not focus on depressing things and depressing people, it can slaughter our happiness meter. Focus on now and leave the past behind. Direct your attention on simple and pure happy things and I tell you, it can do wonders!

Today, this album is born. Share with everyone your simple happiness whether it’s your dog, a sip of coffee, a hug,  a book  or even just hitting the sack… Why not shoot us an email {endlessnasaya@gmail.com} with a photo taken with your camera (DSLR, P&S,mobile phone etc) of your simple happiness and you can add a little caption if you want ^^ - we can enhance it too upon request *wink* and if it’s worth sharing we will post it on this album. Who knows, we can touch a sad soul and turn his sadness into dancing. 30,50,100 pictures? Na-ah, simple happiness should be limitless!

 Friends life is the dancer, and we are the dance. Don’t find happiness, be one!

“ I asked God for Happiness, and He said No. I give you blessings… Happiness is up to you.”

Shining light

Go for whatever makes you happy.

I have always been a believer of this line. I love telling this to my friends who are in the brink of something, either they are contemplating on a decision at work, home or relationships.

Then it hit me.

Uttering this line is easy, but being on the situation itself is not, you know why? Sometimes our happiness is not the happiness of another person. Hard to swallow but wait until you digest it.

I have 2 ghetto friends who have been together for 10 years as sweethearts, they even moved to Singapore together. The girl eventually became very uber possessive and clingy whereas the boy is the typical chick boy. The boy, every time he goes back to the Philippines, would tell me horror stories – not those of  ghosts and spirits- but stories how gaga his girlfriend could be. How he wanted to break up with her so she can stand on her own feet, but she would threaten her own life if he would dare leave her. Learning about this, I effortlessly agreed with the boy  to finally leave her because I know he is no longer happy and I also want her girlfriend – also a  friend of mine, to learn her lessons well so she can be independent.

Two years have passed and nothing changed. They are still together, until early this year at last I heard the news that they broke up. The boy went back in the Philippines (and I am not surprised that he instantly got himself a brand new girlfriend) and the miserable girl was left in Singapore – for the love of God, she is still alive.

These two seek for happiness, one walked away and obtained it, the other was left behind and was wretched.  

I never felt the guilt that in a way or another I was part of their separation, besides I just spoke the truth.

Find your happiness!

Then yes it hit my head like a solid  rock

Recently some of my happiness was taken away; I never questioned God, but I questioned the Universe. I thought it was on my side I followed the wooden sign saying : “Hey, this is happiness” and walked the path and opened the gate.  Unfortunately I wasn’t welcome and they have to send me home. I howled like a child but no one seems to hear me. My happiness was not necessarily their happiness. So how can we justify that? That’s the idea that is hard to guzzle.

Same thing goes when we pray for something. How can we compete with God? Like in a match, let’s say boxing. Both competitors would pray really hard that they take home the title but only one will definitely be declared as a winner, and that winner takes it all. Do I need more “Our Fathers”, or maybe I have to visit the better church, wake up earlier from everybody else and pray the rosary,  visit India and learn the essence of silent prayers? I can but  I don’t think any of these would work... if it is not really meant for us.

Yes, FAITH is important, but not all prayers are answered YET if we are not ready, if we deserve something much better. We might just have been blinded by the sham light and so, WE must be the LIGHT itself.

Go get your happiness, and just in case people or situation demurs and rejects you. Breathe in and breathe out then continue the journey, find a new path. You don’t need to explain to anyone, just believe that one day you’ll finally reach your destination.

Be happy,

Blueberry Girl

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There are days that I'm kinda sad.. but there are also days when I’m uber HAPPY! Today, September 15, 2009 is one of those days and yes, without any particular reason. I was in the mood and was smiling most of the time. I walked on high heels around Ortigas but it was ok, it was a hot afternoon but I managed to crack jokes, I was just staring at the horizon ( foggy ,if I may say) but I get to feel the humid on my face!
Hmm.. ano kayang meron? Was it because of the bright and colorful top I wore today or the new friendships I built or perhaps just being thankful for all the things, good or bad, that happened to me? Buti na lang minsan nasasaktan, kase sobrang saya naman pag pinalitan. Before I stroll my way home I made sure to visit Papa Jesus at the chapel and prayed hard ( both forgiveness and thanksgiving) then I ended it with a request of blessings. May I feel more joy in the days to come 
I decided to ride the bus, closed my eyes and ayun lumampas ako sa North Avenue, Munoz na pag-gisingko, tama ba yun?! Hahaha.. buti na lang masaya ako :)